If you use food to cope, you’re not weak—you’re adaptive.

For many people with trauma histories or disordered eating patterns, food becomes a way to regulate a nervous system that feels stuck in fight, flight, freeze, or shutdown. Not because something is wrong with you, but because your body learned early on that it wasn’t safe to relax.

In this blog, I break down the difference between nervous system dysregulation and healthy emotional responses, how managing behaviors like using food can temporarily take the edge off, and how somatic therapy supports true deactivation so food no longer has to carry the weight of old wounds.

This blog explores how to tell the difference between your true self and your trauma self. Learn how survival strategies form, what they feel like in your body, and how somatic therapy helps you reconnect with your authentic self through nervous system healing.

Relational trauma can shape how you show up in all relationships—including therapy. A trauma therapist Denver can help you notice patterns like people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, or suppressing your needs, and turn them into moments for growth. Through a supportive, reparative experience, you can rewrite old scripts and move toward authentic connection.

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep ending up in toxic relationships, the answer may lie in how trauma affects your nervous system. Chronic stress or harm can dull your internal "alarm system," making it harder to sense red flags or recognize danger. This blog dives into why these patterns happen and how you can reconnect with your body’s natural signals to create a life where safety and healthy relationships feel within reach.