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How to Set Boundaries (When It’s Always Felt Unsafe to Have Them)

If setting boundaries feels overwhelming, guilt-inducing, or unsafe, you’re not doing it wrong — your nervous system may be protecting you. This blog explores why boundaries are difficult after trauma, how early relational conditioning shapes boundary struggles, and how to identify what your boundaries actually are. You’ll learn the difference between real and “faux” boundaries, see concrete examples of different types of boundaries, and discover how somatic and immersive therapy sessions can help you communicate limits with more clarity, confidence, and regulation.

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Therapist Boulder

Searching for therapy in Boulder often starts with a quiet question: Is what I’m dealing with “bad enough” for therapy? This blog explores common trauma signs, how trauma lives in the nervous system, and how trauma-informed, somatic therapy in Colorado can help you feel safer, calmer, and more like yourself again.

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